LinkedIn message after connecting
A new connection is permission to start a conversation, not to sell. The first message sets the tone.
Lead with curiosity and let them talk.
Short answer
The message right after a connection is accepted should thank them, reference why you connected, and ask a genuine question, with no pitch. This first exchange sets up every message that follows. The template below is ready to personalize.
Key takeaways
- Thank them for connecting.
- Reference why you connected.
- Ask a genuine question, not a pitch.
- Let the conversation develop naturally.
The post-connection message
Thanks, reason, genuine question.
- "Thanks for connecting, {First}. I reached out because {reason: your content, shared interest, or role}."
- "Genuinely curious, how is your team handling {relevant challenge} these days? Always interested in how {role}s approach it."
- Wait for a reply and keep it conversational before any ask.
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Frequently asked questions
What should I message someone right after they connect on LinkedIn?
Thank them, reference why you connected, and ask a genuine question about their world, with no pitch. This first exchange builds rapport and sets up every message that follows.
Is it bad to pitch right after connecting?
Yes. An immediate pitch is the fastest way to burn a new connection and get muted. Build a little rapport first; a soft, relevant ask lands much better once there is a real exchange.
How soon should I message after they accept?
Within a day or two, while the connection is fresh. A prompt, genuine message feels natural. Waiting weeks makes the eventual message feel random, and messaging instantly with a pitch feels automated.